Inspiring Lives: Seema Pai

Seema Pai

“There aren’t enough stories told about women who inspire,” I said to my friend Tejbir while cycling down the expressway one morning. “Especially women who lead ordinary lives while doing extraordinary things. They are the “real” role models in a world that thrives on making Gods out of its celebrities, so it’s really important that their stories are told.”

That’s when Tejbir told me about Seema Pai. A mountaineer, rock climber, hiker, runner and cyclist, Seema is also an agriculturist, entrepreneur and businesswoman who wears all her hats with equal aplomb and passion.

Over several weeks of many phone calls, I came to know Seema better. She loves her filter coffee as much as she does her wine, enjoys cooking (she makes a mean pickle) and having her friends over to eat. An avid bird watcher, she’s a crazy dog lover and can teach a thing or two about caregiving. Currently fostering four stray kittens at home, she happily shares her small patch of land on the fringes of a forest outside Ramnagar (near Bengaluru) with the sloth bears and leopards living in the vicinity. What is unique about her farm is (apart from the organic agricultural practices) there are no fences to keep the animals out. “They were here first…the forest and the animals,” she says, and wants them to have a free run of her land as also the first rights on the Alphonso mangoes, millets, tur daal, tamarind, etc. growing on the farm (sloth bears love mangoes and tamarind). Respectful co-existence and maintaining a balance with the ecosystem are important aspects for Seema in everything she does.

A self-made woman, Seema has been working since the age of 16 to support herself. It’s no mean feat that at the age of 20, she floated a public limited company; briefly dabbled with being an event manager; became the sole importer of surgical implant material; tried her hand at the dry cleaning business; and became a ‘Wildcraft’ franchisee. Possessing an innate business sense, the hits have come with their share of misses, and she’s taken them all on as a challenge to reinvent herself. The hallmark of Seema’s life has been her ability to go back to the starting line and start afresh, driven by her resolute will to make it on her own while staying true to her mantra, “Free your mind, your ass follows”.

Climbing for her was love at first sight when she was introduced to it in her 20s. It proved to be both therapeutic and a lesson as it instilled a conscious sense of calm in her and taught her the importance of being in the moment while tackling the challenges of climbing, and of life. The most important thing in climbing for Seema is the aesthetics of things – the “How” of things. How something is done? How do you challenge yourself? How have you changed by what you have learnt? Of the firm belief that learning happens when you get out of your comfort zone, Seema says there is no place for ego on the mountains as humility and resilience are crucial ingredients when you are up close with the elements.

Seema comes across as a warm, open and a very grounded person whose home is always open for friends. Quick to reach out to anyone who might need her help, she chooses to live a private life, where the likes of Facebook and followers on Instagram hold little charm. At an age when most women are looking at facing menopause and worrying about weight gain and laugh lines, Seema’s bucket list is topped up with the Seven Summits challenge (the highest peak on every continent). For her 50th birthday, Seema chose to attempt Mt Denali over Mt Everest. Being the coldest mountain on the planet, climbing Mt Denali is the hardest of the Seven Summits due to the Arctic conditions, extreme weather and glacier mountaineering. Although the height gain from the base to the summit is the the same as Everest, being a completely self supported climb makes it all the more challenging.

In 2019, Seema reached the summit of Mt Denali, making it the fourth summit out of the seven. The next in line are Mt Everest, Mt Vinson Massif, and Mt Puncak Jaya. Although getting sponsorship is a tough challenge, it’s important as climbing is quite a costly affair. Her website, “Why Not At 50” is the groundwork in preparation for the summits and a testimony to her belief that it’s never too late to be what you might have been. As she takes on the peaks and troughs, Seema’s competition is only with herself.



Landmark Climbs

  • 2007: Stok Kangri (20,082 ft), Ladakh; Pindari Glacier trek
  • 2008: Chamser Kangri (21,725 ft) Ladakh; Everest Base Camp trek
  • 2009: Island Peak (20,305 ft), Nepal
  • 2010: Mera Peak (21,247 ft), Nepal
  • 2011: Chamser Kangri (21,725 ft), Ladakh
  • 2013: Mt Kinabalu (13,435 ft) Malaysia; Annapurna Base Camp trek, Nepal
  • 2014: Cho Oyu and Manaslu Base Camp; Climb in the Austrian Alps
  • 2015: Mt Elbrus (18,510 ft), Russia
  • 2016: Kanchenjunga Base Camp trek; Dhaulagiri Circuit trek
  • 2017: Mt Kilimanjaro (19,340 ft), Tanzania; Mt Shasta (14,179 ft), USA; Mt Patalsu (13,845, ft), Manali
  • 2018: Mt Aconcagua (22,837 ft), Argentina
  • 2019: Mt Denali (20,310 ft), Alaska


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20 thoughts on “Inspiring Lives: Seema Pai”

    1. Thank you so much Bela. I always look forward to your feedback, it’s so incisive. Thanks a lot again for taking the time to write.

    1. Thanks so much Pragati. I was especially waiting your feedback on this write up…had a feeling it would resonate with you.

  1. What an inspirational lady Ma’am.. And only someone as inspirational as you could have done justice.. The part I really loved was the unfenced farm !!

    Please keep writing more and more Ma’am

    1. Thank you so much Amol. It truly is inspiring to see a live example of self belief and courage. Yeah, the unfenced farm is such an incredible thought, just amazing!

  2. Truly remarkable….. It takes grit n determination to reach those heights. Rashmi u really do write so well.. Loved every word of it.

    1. Thank you so much for the encouraging words Mona. You are so right, it takes sheer grit and determination to go after your dreams and make them come true.

  3. Wow wow and more wow !!! More power n success to this Wonder Woman ! God bless ! And again wooooooww

    1. Thank you so much Dipali. Wonder woman is actually the best way to describe Seema Pai. She’s really incredible!

  4. I bow to the great lady….also to you Lady Wordsworth for so eloquently making us aware of this inspiring story and her extraordinary achievements

    1. Thank you so much for your encouraging words Gen Chetinder. I’m so glad Seema’s story has resonated, talking to her has been really inspiring.

  5. Wow! That’s awesome! Thanks for sharing Rashmi .
    Spectacular & so inspiring! There is no real definition of an iron women but after reading about Seema Pai , I know now how to define one.

    Rashmi you captured her Spirit and zest for life so eloquently.

    The power of the women you painted is so real and assuring.. Her indomitable love for climbing and just approach for natural habitat for bears & leopards is nothing but noble. She’s an Army in herself.

    Well done Rashmi . I love your affair with the pen . You got the command over the language so let these beauties keep coming.

    1. Thank you so much for all your encouragement Maj Datta. Iron woman is a good description for her iron will and tremendous courage that comes aloy with the most empathetic heart.

  6. Only word repeatedly chasing itself….MINDBOGGLING….Is all this humanly possible?? A famous poem by Robert Frost ‘MENDING WALL’ comes to mind. Wish the poet had read this incredible piece..probably the poem would have taken a different turn ! Incredible , bewilderment, respect, admiration all rolled in one is what describes this SUPER lady….SEEMA PAI. Her will and determination seem to have no ‘seema.’ Kudos to her.
    Of course, Rashmi your lucid, ‘come alive style’ has enhanced her feats and achievements to the hilt .

  7. Thank you so much for this amazing feedback Mrs Sachar. Loved reading the ‘Mending Wall’. And as you have pointed out, Seema’s life is an example of how ‘aseemit’ her will and courage is! Thank you again for such encouraging words.

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